Notice
Name the old agreement.
See the inherited rule, fear, or pressure before it becomes your automatic response.
Choice & Breaking Your Matrix
Two separate courses. Choice comes first.
Choice and Breaking Your Matrix now have separate signups. Begin with Choice as the first step in the process, then continue into BYM as its own course.
Choose Your Path
Solo path or group path
Choose the group path if you want weekly rhythm, live discussion, encouragement, questions, handouts, and people to practice with. Choose the solo path if you need privacy, flexible pacing, and room to begin quietly.
Current group meeting
Group Path currently meets Friday nights at 7:00 PM Central Time. After you sign up, you will receive the information you need to connect with the group.
Outcomes
What this looks like in real life.
You stop saying yes from fear. You notice the old agreement before it runs the room. You practice one honest choice at a time until freedom becomes livable.
A sample lesson rhythm is simple: read slowly, watch the teaching, work the handout, notice where it touches ordinary life, and carry one practice into the week.
Choose
Find the real option.
Pause long enough to ask what is honest, loving, and free in the moment in front of you.
Practice
Make freedom ordinary.
Bring one concrete choice into speech, rest, relationships, boundaries, or daily rhythm.
What people notice changing
The teaching matters when it reaches ordinary life.
These reflections speak to the broader work behind the courses: recognizing reactions, choosing beyond fear, and becoming more authentic over time.
“I find myself choosing love more often than fear. I no longer feel as weighed down by guilt or shame. I feel more confident making difficult decisions. I have a greater sense of purpose and direction. …”
“My relationships have improved. I better understand why I react the way I do. I have more hope for my future. I experience more joy in everyday life. …”
“This work has helped me become a more authentic version of myself.”
These reflections describe Gil's broader teaching and transformation work; they are not promises of a particular course result. Individual experiences vary.
Group path
The best experience is in a small group.
We meet weekly on Zoom to encourage one another, discuss the handouts, ask questions, share thoughts, and practice the work with other people who are also choosing freedom. Choose the Choice group if you are building the foundation first. Choose the Breaking Your Matrix group if you are ready to take awareness into transformation.
Meeting time
Current group meetings are Friday nights at 7:00 PM Central Time. Once you sign up, you will be given the information to connect with the group.
The suggested donation is $75. Choice remains monthly. BYM currently uses a first-month checkout so PayPal does not block the signup; it is still adjustable down to $15 when you sign up.
Choose your group
Friday 7:00 PM CT · two separate group tracks
Solo Path
Move privately, but do not rush the work.
The solo course path is built around the book chapter rhythm, handouts, and videos. Monthly access releases one lesson per week. Choose Choice or BYM separately so your signup matches the course you want.
Choose your solo pathway
Choice Solo · BYM Solo