Notice
Name the old agreement.
See the inherited rule, fear, or pressure before it becomes your automatic response.
Choice & Breaking Your Matrix
Two courses. Two ways to walk them.
Start with Choice, then move into Breaking Your Matrix. Some people need the quiet of a private path. Some need the honesty of a small group. Either way, the invitation is the same: notice the agreement, practice awareness, and choose freedom one ordinary week at a time.
Choose Your Course
Solo path or group path
Choose the group path if you want weekly rhythm, live discussion, encouragement, questions, handouts, and people to practice with.
Choose the solo path if you need privacy, flexible pacing, and room to begin quietly with the book, video, and handout one lesson at a time. What matters most is not speed; it is honesty.
Outcomes
What this looks like in real life.
You stop saying yes from fear. You notice the old agreement before it runs the room. You practice one honest choice at a time until freedom becomes livable.
A sample lesson rhythm is simple: read slowly, watch the teaching, work the handout, notice where it touches ordinary life, and carry one practice into the week.
Choose
Find the real option.
Pause long enough to ask what is honest, loving, and free in the moment in front of you.
Practice
Make freedom ordinary.
Bring one concrete choice into speech, rest, relationships, boundaries, or daily rhythm.
Group path
The best experience is in a small group.
We meet weekly on Zoom to encourage one another, discuss the handouts, ask questions, share thoughts, and practice the work with other people who are also choosing freedom.
Coming soon.
$150/month suggested donation once the group begins.
The group will begin when 12 people have joined the waiting list.
What happens in the group
Not a performance. Not a debate. A place to practice.
The group is built around discovery, not control. You are not coming to prove you understand the material; you are coming to notice what is true in your own life.
Each week can include a companion video, a chapter or lesson focus, handout discussion, questions, shared thoughts, encouragement, and a simple practice for the week ahead.
Groups are held as confidential practice spaces. They are not therapy, medical care, or crisis support, but they are meant to be respectful, grounded rooms where people can speak honestly without being fixed or shamed.
The Lesson
Watch the lesson video. Read the book section. Do the lesson before we meet each week.
Reflect
Spend time daily if possible doing just a little work. The lesson will lead you to notice agreements, programming, fear, and freedom in your own life.
Discuss
At the group meeting, you're encouraged to ask questions, share thoughts, and bring your work into honest conversation.
Practice
Each week you will build and grow as you carry one simple integration practice into daily life. No pressure. Move at your own pace.
Waiting list
The next Authenticity Group is coming soon.
The group will begin when 12 people are ready. Join the waiting list, or choose the solo route for $45/month.
Coming soon
$150/month suggested donation once the group begins. The group starts when 12 people are ready.
Join the Waiting List$45/month
Prefer to begin now on your own rhythm? The solo route gives you the Choice and Breaking Your Matrix course path for $45/month.
Choose the Solo RouteSolo path
Move privately, but do not rush the work.
The solo course path is built around the book chapter rhythm, handouts, and videos. Monthly access releases one lesson per week over the next 15 months. It is a lot, and it is worth doing slowly. Full access opens the available course library for one person, with the same invitation to work with one lesson at a time. The solo monthly suggested donation is $45/month. If you need help with that amount, send a request before signing up.
Choice and Breaking Your Matrix course
27 Choice lessons · 32 BYM lessons
Who leads the groups?
Gil leads many groups. But some groups may be led by other leaders from the ministry. Groups are connected to Gil Hodges Freedom and the Choice / Breaking Your Matrix teaching path. The room follows Gil's posture: honest, spacious, direct, and practice-focused.
How big are the groups?
Groups stay small enough for real conversation. Exact size may vary by season. Generally 10-15 people.
What happens after I join the waiting list?
You receive next-step follow-up by email. The group begins when 12 people have joined the waiting list. Until then, the solo route is available for $45/month.
Can I reduce the monthly amount?
Once the group begins, the suggested donation is $150/month.