Best path
Small group
Move through BYM with weekly encouragement, handout discussion, questions, shared thoughts, and others practicing with you.
See group timesBreaking Your Matrix Course
Wake up from the programming and live free.
Most of us do not notice the Matrix while we are inside it. We just call it normal. This course helps you see the programming, release fear-based agreements, and practice living from your authentic self.
Private path
Self-paced course
Move through the book, handouts, and video lessons at your own pace while still taking one lesson at a time.
Begin PrivatelyGood fit
This deeper path is not for rushing, proving, or arguing.
BYM is best for people willing to slow down, notice their own patterns, and practice freedom in ordinary choices.
It is not for someone looking for a quick fix, a debate stage, a replacement for therapy, or a way to analyze everyone else before doing their own work. The question is simple and demanding: am I willing to see what has been running me?
Suggested donation
BYM is the deeper half of one combined course.
Breaking Your Matrix needs time. Stay with the handout, book chapter, video, and daily practice rather than racing through the course.
BYM is part of the combined Choice and Breaking Your Matrix course: 27 Choice lessons first, then 32 BYM lessons, 59 lessons in all. New lessons are added ahead of participant progress. The suggested donation structure helps sustain the work, and you choose the amount that is honest for your season.
Choice and Breaking Your Matrix course
27 Choice lessons · 32 BYM lessons
The best experience is in a small group. Move through the course with weekly encouragement, handout discussion, and others practicing alongside you. Suggested donation: $150/month once the group begins. The group starts when 12 people are ready.
Join an Authenticity GroupWhat you'll experience
The BYM path gives you a clear weekly rhythm.
This course gives you a clear rhythm: read slowly, watch the teaching, work through the handout, reflect honestly, and practice one simple step during the week.
The purpose is not to collect more information. Freedom often comes from removing false agreements, not adding more noise. The purpose is to notice the programming shaping your life and begin choosing from a freer place.
Awareness
Name the matrix without fear.
Participants begin by seeing the assumptions, rules, and habits that have shaped identity and behavior.
Untethering
Release the code underneath.
The course works with repetition, emotion, fear, confirmation bias, and inherited religious, cultural, family, or secular programming.
Freedom
Become a walking invitation.
The later course path moves into love, mind renewal, fearless freedom, open doors, and lived integration.
32-lesson curriculum
A long path from awareness to freedom.
The path gives you enough detail to see the depth without turning freedom into another system to perform.
Awakening to the Matrix
Introduction, what the matrix is, unseen conditioning, personal programming, and hidden beliefs.
The Power of Programming
Childhood, culture, religion, school, family systems, secular assumptions, repetition, emotion, confirmation bias, and the beginning of reprogramming.
Awareness as the First Freedom
Learning to notice the code, trace reactions, and practice conscious awareness before automatic response.
Breaking Free From Fear
Seeing fear as programming and learning to choose love, clarity, and authority over fear-based identity.
Letting Go, Healing, and the Phoenix
The art of letting go, healing wounds, releasing the false self, and allowing wisdom to rise from what burned.
Living Free, Loving Free, Thinking Free
Becoming a walking invitation to liberation, relationships beyond the program, and reclaiming the mind.
Fearless Freedom and Integration
Beyond the matrix, the open door, egregores, breaking the larger matrix, and final group integration.
Featured lesson shape
Lesson 16 gives the course its emotional center.
The BYM Lesson 16 summary centers on the Phoenix rising image, transformation as an ongoing spiral, healing without perfectionism, boundaries, reducing phone dependency, solitude, and learning to let go and flow.
That is the heart of the course: not escaping life, but becoming freer inside it.
Introduction
Awakening to the matrix.
What Is the Matrix?
Conditioning, assumptions, hidden rules, and personal beliefs.
The Power of Programming
Where the code came from and how it keeps repeating.
Awareness
The first step to freedom.
Fear
Breaking free from fear-based patterns.
Letting Go and Healing
The path to true freedom, including the Phoenix Rising lesson.
Living Free
Becoming a walking invitation to liberation.
Integration
Bring the work into relationships, choices, rest, speech, boundaries, and daily rhythm.
Lesson sequence
The BYM path moves from awareness to integration.
Each lesson gives people a way to notice the old programming and practice freedom in the next ordinary choice.
Introduction
Awakening to the Matrix.
Chapter 1 - What Is the Matrix?
Conditioning, unseen rules, and personal programming.
Chapter 2 - The Power of Programming
Pages 43-68 across three recorded lessons.
Chapter 3 - Awareness
The first step to freedom, pages 69-102.
Chapter 4 - Breaking Free From Fear
Choosing love over fear-based programming.
Chapter 5 - The Art of Letting Go
Rising above the old system through release.
Chapter 6 - Healing and Letting Go
The path to true freedom, ending with the Phoenix Rising lesson.
Chapter 7 - Living Free
Becoming a walking invitation to liberation.
Peaceful next step
Invite ready people into the deeper deprogramming path.
BYM can be studied as a 32-lesson self-paced course, but the very best way is in a small group where people can discuss the handouts, ask questions, share thoughts, and encourage one another weekly. Suggested donation: $150/month once the group begins. The next group is coming soon and begins when 12 people are ready.