Transmuting Fear Into Love: A Pathway Into Freedom

Transmuting Fear Into Love: A Pathway Into Freedom
For most of my life, I approached fear the same way most of us do: I tried to get rid of it.
Push it out. Pray it out. Cast it out.
And for a long time, that was the only tool I knew.
There is a time when fear needs to be cast away.
When a person is entangled with fearโemotionally fused to it, programmed by it, shaped by itโthey canโt reason with it, and they certainly canโt transform it. In that state, fear becomes a lens, not a visitor. It becomes the whole identity framework through which the world is interpreted.
You cannot transmute what you are entangled with.
The first movement is always untangling.
But what I have learned through my own spiritual journey, my inner work, my meditations, and the epigenetic rewiring of my belief system, is this:
Perfect love casts out fearโฆ
but perfect love also transforms it.
Fear is not merely an enemy.
Itโs a distorted energyโan impulse that originally rose to protect something fragile within us. And when we finally step out of our identification with fear, weโre free to work with that energy in a completely different way.
Let me share the pathway I now walk myself, and the one I guide others through.
1. Untangling From Fear
Fear becomes powerful when we let it merge with our identity.
โI am afraidโ becomes โI am fear.โ
Thatโs when it begins to control decisions, shape relationships, and write the unconscious agreements that govern our lives.
So the first step is always distance.
In meditation, I ask people to simply notice the fear signature in their body:
the tightening in the chest, the knot in the stomach, the shallow breathing.
Then I invite them to trace the belief underneath it:
- โIโll be rejected.โ
- โIโll be alone.โ
- โIโll fail.โ
- โGod is disappointed in me.โ
- โIโm running out of time.โ
These are not facts. Theyโre agreementsโoften inherited epigenetically, carried through family systems, absorbed through religion, culture, trauma, and the programming of survival.
When you see the agreement, fear begins to loosen.
Then comes a conscious Choice:
โI step out of agreement with this fear.โ
It isnโt violent. Itโs honest.
Itโs the moment when you lay down the old operating code.
2. Inviting Fear Back as Energy
Once fear is no longer fused to your identity, something holy becomes possible.
Instead of rejecting fear, you can now meet it as a visitor.
Not as a threat,
but as something that was tryingโhowever clumsilyโto protect you.
Jesus, Buddha, and many of the great spiritual voices taught in different ways that fear is not our enemy; our identification with fear is the enemy. And when that identification breaks, the energy of fear becomes workable.
In a quiet space, Iโll often picture my fear in front of meโsometimes as a shape, a shadow, a color, or even a young, frightened version of myself.
Then I ask it:
โWhat were you trying to protect?โ
Every time, the answer is simple:
โI was trying to keep you safe.โ
โI didnโt want you hurt again.โ
โI was shielding the part of you that didnโt know its worth.โ
When fear steps out of its armor, compassion steps in.
This is where the shift begins.
3. Transmutation: Turning Fear Into Love
Love is not passive.
It is the most powerful force in the spiritual realm.
When I rest deeply enough in the field of Loveโwhat some would call the Christ-consciousness, what others see in the teachings of Buddha, and what I recognize as the Presence that has guided my pathโI can actually transform the very energy that once held me captive.
I imagine love flowing toward that fear, not to erase it but to reassign it.
And something beautiful happens:
Fear softens.
It changes shape.
It becomes a teacher instead of a tyrant.
Its energy integrates instead of overwhelms.
The old agreement dissolves, and a new one forms:
- โI am safe to be seen.โ
- โLove is my environment, not scarcity.โ
- โMy body is not my enemy.โ
- โI am guided, not judged.โ
- โI am aligned, not racing against time.โ
This is what it means to rewrite the epigenetic codeโto consciously choose the patterns that shape your future rather than repeat the patterns of your past.
Fear becomes fuel.
Fear becomes wisdom.
Fear becomes love in a new form.
4. Living From the New Agreement
Transmutation is powerful, but it becomes lasting when you integrate it into daily life.
This week, choose one area where fear shows up:
- Relationships โ fear of rejection
- Money โ fear of โnot enoughโ
- Health โ fear of decline
- Purpose โ fear of wasted life
- Spirituality โ fear of divine disappointment
Then state your new agreement out loud, every day, consciously:
โI choose love in this place.โ
Every repetition strengthens the new neural pathway.
Every conscious Choice rewires the programming.
Every act of awareness untethers you further from the old matrix.
This is how freedom becomes a lifestyle, not an experience.
A Final Word
If you are walking this path right nowโif fear has felt like a shadow trailing your lifeโI want you to know something:
Youโre not weak for feeling fear.
Youโre human.
But you are also more than human.
You carry a spiritual inheritance that transcends programming, pain, and history.
You carry the power to transform the very energy that once held you captive.
Fear is not the final voice in your story.
Love is.
And every time you untangle from fear and invite it to be transformed, you are reclaiming your freedom, your identity, and your role as a conscious co-creator in this universe.
Love to you ALL!
~Gil Hodges
Rise Without End.
Live Without Limits.
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I think I understand what you are saying. My whole life has been drained and taken from me, it took everything.
As we walk out our journey here in this realm. We learn and grow. There are many deaths to live out, and many rebirths as we find our way toward authenticity.
This is excellent, Gil! Well done! Thank you for explaining this process in simple, easy to understand steps that anyone can follow. I bless you! ๐
Experience is a great teacher. ๐
Thanks Gil! This is a powerful teaching whose truth resonates with me. I appreciate you!
Thank you, Joni.
Blessings as courage as we all grow in our journeys.